ETIQUETTE TIPS FOR FUNERAL SERVICES IN MIDDLETOWN, NJ
FUNERAL SERVICE PROGRAM ETIQUETTE ADVICE
John F. Pfleger Funeral Home provides our community in Middletown, NJ, with respectful funeral services when loved ones pass on. For several decades, we have built a legacy as a team dedicated to providing families with everything they need during difficult times of grief. Our comprehensive funeral services provide a place and time where your loved one can be celebrated and you can take a step forward in healing. Whether you need help learning the etiquette for a funeral service or need help planning a memorial service for a loved one, John F. Pfleger Funeral Home is here for you. Contact us today.
HELPFUL TIPS ON ETIQUETTE AT CEMETERIES AND FUNERAL SERVICES
Death and the grieving process are challenging for everyone involved. We offer family funeral care to make funeral services a safe space for mourning, celebrating, and saying goodbye to loved ones. For your convenience and comfort, we have provided answers to some common questions about etiquette when attending a funeral service program or going to the cemetery. Browse our answers and etiquette tips from John F. Pfleger Funeral Home so you can prepare for a funeral service.
funeral etiquette
What to Say and What Not to Say
What to Say and What Not to Say
A simple “I’m sorry for your loss” is appropriate when offering your condolences. Say what feels right in the moment. Avoid phrases such as “they are in a better place” or “this is God’s plan” because they may not hold these views.
What to Wear
What to Wear
Learn what the dress code is beforehand. Now that funerals are more personalized, not everyone will want their guests to wear black. If there is no dress code, assume that you should dress conservatively, without bringing attention to yourself.
Religious and Ethnic Customs
Religious and Ethnic Customs
If the family has religious or ethnic customs different than your own, it is helpful to find out any special considerations before the service. You can ask us for advice and additional resources if you are unsure.
Paying Your Respects
Paying Your Respects
When there is an open-casket, guests are expected to visit the casket and pause for a moment of silence. You will know if the family will show you to the casket or if you are to approach it on your own. If you are uncomfortable viewing the deceased, you do not need to view them.
Giving Flowers and Gifts
Giving Flowers and Gifts
Typically, guests will send flowers, donate money, or give a memorial gift to the family of the deceased. Sometimes the family will make special requests depending on their situation.
Signing the Register Book
Signing the Register Book
Use your full name when signing the register book. You can also add your relation to the deceased.
Avoid Cellphone Disruptions
Avoid Cellphone Disruptions
To avoid any disruptions, silence or turn off your phone before entering the funeral home.
cemetery etiquette
Follow the Cemetery’s Rules
Follow the Cemetery’s Rules
Follow any of the rules posted on the signs around the cemetery. This includes cemetery hours and flower restrictions. They are written to help all guests have a peaceful experience visiting their loved ones.
Be Respectful of Other Mourners
Be Respectful of Other Mourners
Give everyone their space and privacy, especially if a funeral is happening.
Respect the Graves and Monuments
Respect the Graves and Monuments
It is disrespectful to touch the headstones and monuments, as this can damage them. Never remove any of the items placed by the gravestone that could be left by a family.
Lower Your Voice
Lower Your Voice
Many mourners want quietness when they are visiting a grave. Speak softly and quietly and have your phone silenced or off.
Keep the Cemetery Clean
Keep the Cemetery Clean
Never litter or leave behind your trash. Either find a garbage can or bring it with you.
Look After Your Children
Look After Your Children
Keep your eye on your children when at a cemetery. Do not allow them to be loud or run around.
CONTACT US TODAY
If you need more information about the etiquette expected at a funeral or memorial service, our team at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home can help. Contact us for services that will allow you to celebrate your loved one's life with dignity and respect. We will take care of your needs so you can celebrate your loved one's life. Choose the funeral home that has been choosing your community for decades.